Monday, August 12, 2013

Selfish? Or Responsible

If you're unhappy in a relationship and you choose to leave that relationship, are you being selfish?  Is it your responsibility to make others happy?  Is it okay to put your feelings, needs and desires last after everyone and everything else?  Is it ok to choose not to do something, even though we know that our heart would sing with joy if we did, because we're vibrating in our normal state of fear and to do something different, even though our heart would sing with joy, is scary because it just might stop the fear and we'd be faced with a new state of normal?

The answer to all these questions isn't, "no" - it is a loud, forceful "NO!"

Living a human life is complicated when we buy into physical world teachings of what is acceptable.  Remember the quote "God helps those who help themselves?"  What does this mean to you?  Through a detailed discussion with a dear friend, I discerned what I believe this to mean.

I believe God helps those who help themselves by being wise enough to know when to ask God for help - and that "when" is always!  I believe that when we ask God to help us, we bring in the wisdom of our higher self - that aspect of ourselves that is right there with God at a higher plane of existence - where the vision of what the highest outcome of a situation is clear.

But the fact remains we live in a fast paced physical world that dictates our every move from a source of fear. I believe it is time to change that perception of living.  I believe its time to tap into the Divine light within us and dissipate the darkness of fear to reveal the truth of our highest good.  I believe when we open our heart to allow this, the love that is our essence will change the world we live in to a better place for us and everyone around us.

But of course, that would mean living a life of joy. For many of us, living in joy is a foreign place, yet...  a place that we long for and dream of.

Years ago when my grandmother would go somewhere or do something outside her normal every day routine, I would ask her if she had "fun."  She didn't have a definition of "fun."  She could enjoy something, but "fun" was something that was unattainable for her.  She resides with the angels now and she has assured me she is having "FUN" now!

What is your definition of fun?  Are you living a life of joy in all areas of your life - any area of your life?  What's your stress level right now?

If you yearn for more fun, more joy and and to learn how to manage the stress in your life, scroll down and click the links below to register for two complimentary programs that hold the tools to do just that!  In the mean time, ask God for help!  When was the last time you asked for help yourself, in your prayers?  Plus, I recommend using your favorite grounding method to manage the negative energies you are bombarded with on a daily basis.  By maintaining a grounded state of existence you'll balance the energies around you more easily.  Also, ask your angels to shield you from all that is less than love energy and embrace the energy of their love as they surround you.  As you ascend your energy life will be easier

When we tap into the Divinity within us, we discover that life can be so much easier than it is, AND so much more joy filled!  You deserve to be happy, it isn't selfish to make changes to be happy, it is the responsible action to take!

In love and light,
Kate

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